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Lady Doctor’s Research Reveals That Women Are Horny Creatures Yes, that’s right according to Dr. Paige Padgett of the University of Texas’ School of Public Health, 1 in 3 women who date online get busy on the 1st date. Padgett’s 2007 study was published the highly regarded journal, “Research & Social Policy, which is a journal affiliated with National Sexuality Research Center.

Padgett’s study involved 740 women who had placed online ads seeking men. The results of the study were quite compelling. Padgett found that over 30% of the women engaged in sex on the 1st date. And more surprising, of those women that had sex, 77% reported not using a condom during 1st date sex.

Virtual Intimacy Theory The good Doctor Padgett didn’t merely conclude that these women were slutty. However, she did find that women who would otherwise be very careful did have unprotected sex because they were lulled into a false sense of virtual intimacy by men.

Dr. Padgett determined that “virtual intimacy” arose as a by-product of the frequent exchanges between the women and the men they had sex with on the first date. Before meeting face-to-face, the women exchanged information through e-mail and telephone calls about their history, likes & dislikes, and even their sexual preferences.

This Padgett says created the “virtual intimacy” a sense that a relationship might or might not exist but may encourage sexual intimacy at a faster rate than what would develop through conventional methods.

So What Does This Mean For Gents? The take home here is: Start Online Dating Today! You’ll save money as it’s cheaper than going to clubs & bars and you’ll get laid on the 1st date 33% of the time. But make sure you use condoms.

My View of Padgett & Her Conclusions: She interprets the results of the study incorrectly. She is overly paternalistic and portrays women as weak, pathetic and stupid. They are not. Furthermore, she views men as predators who trick women and lull them into a sense of “virtual intimacy”. Bullshit!!

Applying Common Sense To Padgett’s Study Let’s apply common sense and give women the credit they deserve. Women who date online know exactly what they want. They want to find attractive mates that meet their dating criteria. They select one or several potential mates from the endless number that constantly email them. Then they asked a series questions to determine whether this particular male meets their criteria. If so, it’s on!

If you shine a light on what’s really happening, you’ll discover that the women are the ones speeding up the sexual relationship. How? Simple. The women in Padgett’s study (and all online women daters) try to learn as much as possible about their potential sex partners as quickly as possible, whether by telephone or e-mail before meeting face-to-face.

Why? To allow themselves to engage in sexual congress as soon as possible. Once a woman convinces herself that a man meets her criteria she will sleep with him. And in every case in Padgett’s study, the women had already decided through email and telephone conversations that the particular man in question met her criteria or at least enough of the criteria to warrant sex!

How To Use Padgett’s Study To sum up, women love sex as much as men. They, however, take a substantially different approach than men. And this is the most important fact that I’ve learned from my own online dating experiences, which is supported by Padgett’s work: Women must first convince themselves that you meet their dating qualifications and that you are a Quality Man.

Not understanding this fact leads many guys to shoot themselves in the foot. They wrongly believe that they need power, fame, or money to have success with women. My secret that is supported by Padgett’s work: To be successful in online dating requires only that do not disqualify yourself. Women have dating qualifications yes. Women have all sorts of questions, yes.

However, women only require that you reply to their questions or hold yourself out in fairly open manner in order for them to say to themselves, “Hey this gentleman seems normal, he’s available, and he’s mine.” At this point, they’ll grant themselves permission to have sex with you.

So How Do You Get Women To Give Themselves Permission? Easy, you read my Free Newsletter about the B.O.L.D. Approach and learn how to set up the Perfect Online Dating Profile.

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